See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. Their thinking is something like this. I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. Romantic Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend.
When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous.
At the end of the day, nothing I say or do can help him see this. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. You have to choose what's right for you, but you have to figure it out. These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. The importance of modesty. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment.
I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. See, I am a SAHM and my husband has just gotten accepted into a 4 year pediatrics residency program this year. I think your response is Bang on. Why Mormons are not sexist. I really don't know how will I cope up with every matter without him by my side in this new road ahead of me.